International Sexual Exploitation​ Enemies United

501(c)(3) Public Charity

How To Create a Care Package for the Wife, of an Addict, in Crisis 
​1. Write a heartfelt letter of love

2. Include things that will help to brighten her day like
a. Chocolate b. Flowers c. Fresh fruit d. Home baked goodies

3. Include items that will help to comfort her
a. Cooling eye masks b. Lotion c. Bubble bath d. Slippers e. Gift cards for spa treatments

4. Include gifts that will make her life a bit easier
a. Coloring books and crayons for the kids b. Gift cards for takeout food c. Gift cards for cleaning services d. Offer to watch her kids so she can nap or attend appointments with her counselor

5. Include books and resources that can help her find a path toward healing

a. Some of our favorites are
i Shattered Vows by Debra Laaser ii. What can I do about Me? By Rhyll Crowshaw
iii. From Heartache to Healing by Colleen & Philip Harrison
iv. Helping Her Heal DVDs by Doug Weiss v. www.owningourstories.blogspot.com
​ b. Great resources/programs for healing
i. A L.I.F.E. Recovery Guide; For Spouses by Melissa Haas
ii. The Healing Through Christ Manual
iii. S-anon program books           iv. Doug Weiss’ Partner set           v. Celebrate Recovery Materials           vi. COSA Materials

6. Include a journal with positive thoughts/quotes/scriptures about hope and healing

7. Deliver it personally with a hug and a listening ear

8. Continue to check up on her and offer to help


If you or someone you know is affected by the Pornography or Sexual Addiction of another please consider sending a care package.